Hello, everyone~ Have you seen my video before? Some of you might be wondering: "How do you get to know your child?" Today's article will teach parents some ways to understand their children and help them open up to us.
Children are a very sensitive subject, and they are often emotionally driven and influenced by something. If parents often don't care about their children's feelings but often push their children, it will be really hard for us to be close to them. Then how can we help you understand your feelings?
1. Listen to your child
Have you ever tried to put your work on hold for a while to listen to your child's stories in your classroom? Have you ever spent hours watching our lovely children's faces glow with the beautiful smile, listening to them tell stories in a cute voice? Although the story sounds strange ^^ it may be funny, it is a great happiness for each parent.
Depending on their age, the approach to your child is also different. If your child is young, the approach to speaking will be different from that of adults. According to my teaching experience, when I'm dealing with preschool and elementary school-age children, I tend to aim to find out their preferences, and then use them to reach out and open our conversation with them.
What about middle school seniors? This is a difficult age to tell and is working out a lot. You'll tend to think you're mature enough, old enough to do something. To reach out to these people, I'll find out what they're interested in and interested in at that time to start the story.
From these approaches, we can help children open up to us, thereby sharing their feelings for themselves. The video below is a specific case of yours that will give you a better understanding. Please watch and listen to my story in this video.
2. Respect your child
When we respect your child's decisions, it'll make it easier for you to open up to them. Importantly, they realize that they need to be more responsible for their decisions.
When being respected, your child will also become more cautious with their decisions, thereby limiting unprofitable work.
When we respect our child, we will be respected ourselves again. By then, it will be easier for your child to find you to share thoughts, even difficult things to say. Their behaviour has changed since then.
3. Believe in your child
Faith is a powerful thing that can make people better. I was willing to share my feelings with my mom because she always made me see her trust through gestures and words. It is true that parental trust is a great strength for children to take steps and grow.
With me, because of my mother's trust, I can always be willing to share everything with her, even if I get a low score on the exam. My mom won't scold me, but instead she will cheer me up and encougrage me to do better next time. That's why I believe my mom knows me well.
Therefore, with the suggestions I have shared above, I hope you can find the best and most appropriate way to understand your child. I wish you all the best of luck!
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